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I’d love to be six again !

A man asked his wife what she’d like for her 40th birthday. “I’d love to be six again,” she replied. On the morning of her birthday, he got her up bright and early and off they went to a local theme park. What a day! He put her on every ride in the park: the Death Slide, the Screaming Loop, and the Wall of Fear, everything there was! Wow! Five hours later she staggered out of the theme park, her head reeling and her stomach upside down. Right to a McDonald’s they went, where her husband ordered her a Happy Meal along with extra fries and a refreshing chocolate shake.

Then, it was off to a movie – the latest Disney and what a fabulous adventure! Finally, she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed. He leaned over and lovingly asked, “Well, dear, what was it like being six again?” One eye opened. “You idiot, I meant my dress size.” The moral of this story is: When a woman speaks and a man is actually listening, he will still get it wrong.

Updated: March 7, 2017 — 12:52 PM

A man asked his wife what she’d like for her 40th birthday.

women are always right men are always wrong

 “I’d love to be six again,” she replied. On the morning of her birthday, he got her up bright and early and off they went to a local theme park. What a day! He put her on every ride in the park: the Death Slide, the Screaming Loop, the Wall of Fear, everything there was! Wow! Five hours later she staggered out of the theme park, her head reeling and her stomach upside down. Right to a McDonald’s they went, where her husband ordered her a Happy Meal along with extra fries and a refreshing chocolate shake.

Then, it was off to a movie – the latest Disney and what a fabulous adventure!Finally, she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed. He leaned over and lovingly asked, “Well, dear, what was it like being six again?” One eye opened. “You idiot, I meant my dress size.” The moral of this story is: When a woman speaks and a man is actually listening, he will still get it wrong.

Updated: March 24, 2016 — 12:05 PM

You are stronger than you realize.

people change memories dont

You are crueller than you realize. The smallest words will break your heart.You will change. You’re not the same person you were three years ago. You’re not even the same person you were three minutes ago and that’s okay. Especially if you don’t like the person you were three minutes ago. People come and go. Some are cigarette breaks, others are forest fires. You won’t like your name until you hear someone say it in their sleep. You’ll forget your email password but ten years from now you’ll still remember the number of steps up to his flat.

You don’t have to open the curtains if you don’t want to. Never stop yourself texting someone. If you love them at 4 a.m., tell them. If you still love them at 9.30 a.m., tell them again. Make sure you have a safe place. Whether it’s the kitchen floor or the Travel section of a bookshop, just make sure you have a safe place. You will be scared of all kinds of things, of spiders and clowns and eating alone, but your biggest fear will be that people will see you the way you see yourself. Sometimes, looking at someone will be like looking into the sun. Sometimes someone will look at you like you are the sun. Wait for it. You will learn how to sleep alone, how to avoid the cold corners but still fill a bed. Always be friends with the broken people.

how we walk with the broken

They know how to survive. You can love someone and hate them, all at once. You can miss them so much you ache but still ignore your phone when they call. You are good at something, whether it’s making someone laugh or remembering their birthday. Don’t ever let anyone tell you that these things don’t matter. You will always be hungry for love. Always. Even when someone is asleep next to you you’ll envy the pillow touching their cheek and the sheet hiding their skin. Loneliness is nothing to do with how many people are around you but how many of them understand you. People say I love you all the time. Even when they say, ‘Why didn’t you call me back?’ or ‘He’s an asshole.’ Make sure you’re listening. You will be okay.

Updated: March 23, 2016 — 11:35 AM

Why do we love only when it’s convenient to us?

love me only when its convenient

Why do we love only when it’s convenient to us? Is it because we don’t want to let go Of the security that a close heart holds? Or is it the risk of being broken? Too unbearable to even let the thought surface.There are greater rewards in stepping outside of your own comfort Than there are in never breaking down the walls that you’ve built.

A solely self-sustaining life is surely a hollow one. Why do we love only when it’s convenient to us? A solely self-sustaining life is surely a hollow one.Why do we love only when it’s convenient to us? Why are we understanding? Why are we understanding only when it’s agreeable?

 

 

“WE CAME AS ROMANS – Stay Inspired “

Updated: March 23, 2016 — 11:35 AM

You’re not growing up if you’re not losing friends.

not going to appologize for who i am

You’re not growing up if you’re not losing friends. That’s a really famous quote. Just this year, I lost approximately 20 friends. Now that’s not worth, is it? I can never understand the logic behind a human’s‘ psychology. Humans act without even thinking. ‘Think before you speak’ is never executed or implemented by humans. He says that he stopped talking to me because I’d stop talking to him in future anyways. Is that a reason to stop talking to anyone? Doesn’t look like. It all just hurts so much. Humans have a tendency to assume that they take the right decision ALL the time. I might be wrong too.  I should probably look at the whole situation from his point of view. But is that what the world cares about? If I start thinking about others needs, I’d probably get invisible soon and people wouldn’t even care about me. 

i refuse to appologize for being a bitch

But isn’t it inhuman or selfish to think about only one’s self and not about others?  There comes a phase in every humans life where they get really confused about what to do. Confusion between the right and the wrong.  Situations like this lead to depressions and depressions lead to isolation of that particular individual.  “Humans are a social animal” said Aristotle. This means that no human can live without friends. But humans are so heartless that they avoid a few humans and act really rude towards them.

Updated: March 23, 2016 — 11:35 AM

I might act mean or careless.

a sad soul is always up past midnight

I might act mean or careless at times but the truth is I care too much.  I been through a lot.  It seems that I am always sad.  I act goofy to make people laugh and to keep myself from feeling sad.  I like to be alone but at the same time hate feeling lonely. I wear my heart on my sleeve and ignore my brains logic.   Somedays I want to get out the house and go do things other days I just want to stay in and do nothing at all.

 

Updated: March 23, 2016 — 11:35 AM
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