If you could change anything about me what would you change?

Has anyone ever asked you that or  have you asked anyone that before?  I been asked a few times in my life by a few women. My responses have been I would change your anger issues or I would change your smoking habits and simple things like that.  

The most recent time I was asked that was from Alicia. I thought about it really hard. Since I’ve known her for a while and I know how she is/was  I felt like she was perfect for me. So after thinking about it for a few seconds I answered the only thing I would change about you Alicia is your last name.  She smiled and told me that was a good answer. Knowing what I know now she never took anything I said seriously.

 I doubt she believed me but I was honest.  Don’t get me wrong she is not perfect and she has made a lot of mistakes so have I  but I have come to the point in my life where I accept someone for who they are and if I don’t like something about them or a lot of  things about them then I don’t pursue any relationship with them. I don’t want to set myself up for failure.  I never thought about things like that in the past and if I would have known better I could have avoided a lot of issues and avoided a lot of messed up people.

So now I don’t regret telling Alicia that but if I could go back in time I would say something else.  I’m not sure what I would say well honestly I would say you need to fix you anger management issues.  Maybe some doors should stay closed so don’t ask if you are not ready to hear the answer.