Sometimes you realize the journey you been taking has reached its final stop. So the question becomes where do you go next? We all need to adapt and move forward in life so that we can get better jobs, find true love or just plainly move on up in the world ? Is it the fear of rejection, the unknown, getting hurt, or just not wanting to deal with the bullshit anymore? I know some people are afraid to leave the past behind them because they don’t think they could find someone better they think they hit their peak. Some of us just accept the love we think we deserve so we accept people treating us like shit cheating on us beating on us and plain old just accepting less than we deserve.
A lot of people do that because they have self-esteem issues they feel inferior so they think they deserve an inferior person as well. Fuck that I been trough that and it sucks. I can relate to the notion that people get tired of dealing with people’s bullshit. In a way people put their guard up raise shields(red alert) to deal with people’s bullshit you know games, lies and immaturity. The bad thing about that is that great opportunities can also be deflected by accident.
At times simple problems or issues will fool us into believing that we need to move forward or change our plans. Before making a serious decision in life think about this, will this matter a year from now. For example you want to get rims for your car but they cost thousands of dollars. Do you really need those rims will it matter a year from now if you have them? A year from now they will have new styles of rims anyways right? Or on a more serious note let’s say you are thinking about moving in with your significant other can you see being with that person in a year or 2 because if you are on rocky slopes things won’t get better. I’m just saying think about the effects of your decision are they worth it and will it matter in the long run. Don’t just rush things or be hasty.